{"id":1016,"date":"2019-12-03T21:51:13","date_gmt":"2019-12-03T20:51:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/martina.vagacova.sk\/?page_id=1016"},"modified":"2019-12-03T21:51:13","modified_gmt":"2019-12-03T20:51:13","slug":"prirodzene-a-logicke-dosledky-nastroj-k-zodpovednosti","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/martina.vagacova.sk\/?page_id=1016","title":{"rendered":"Prirodzen\u00e9 a logick\u00e9 d\u00f4sledky – n\u00e1stroj k zodpovednosti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Efekt\u00edvna komunik\u00e1cia s\u00a0die\u0165a\u0165om prehlbuje vz\u00e1jomn\u00e9 pozit\u00edvne vz\u0165ahy\u00a0 v\u00a0rodine a\u00a0buduje d\u00f4veru a\u00a0porozumenie. Rovnako i\u00a0re\u0161pektuj\u00face verb\u00e1lne vyjadrenie vzniknut\u00fdch probl\u00e9mov je vlastne prv\u00fdm krokom\u00a0 k\u00a0ich kon\u0161trukt\u00edvnemu rie\u0161eniu.<\/span><\/p>\n

A\u00a0to je pr\u00e1ve t\u00e9ma, ktorej sa budeme dnes podrobnej\u0161ie venova\u0165. Ako rie\u0161i\u0165 na\u0161e ka\u017edodenn\u00e9 konflikty, \u010di mal\u00e9 s\u00faboje, ktor\u00e9 dok\u00e1\u017eu zmeni\u0165 domov na bojisko? To je oblas\u0165, kde by rodi\u010d r\u00e1d prijal jasn\u00fa recept\u00faru \u010di n\u00e1vod, ktor\u00fdm by sa bojov\u00e9 pole v\u00a0okam\u017eiku zmenilo na pokojn\u00e9 cvi\u010disko, kde vojaci posl\u00fachaj\u00fa velite\u013ea. Ale skuto\u010dne by sme to chceli? Mali by sme rados\u0165 z\u00a0det\u00ed bez n\u00e1zoru a\u00a0vlastnej v\u00f4le? Z\u00a0det\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 by mysleli a\u00a0robili presne to, \u010do chceme? To by u\u017e ale pravdepodobne neboli \u013eudsk\u00e9 bytosti, ale dobre skroten\u00e9 zvieratk\u00e1. Popieralo by to ak\u00fako\u013evek r\u00f4znorodos\u0165, individualitu charakterov, ale najm\u00e4 \u013eudsk\u00fa potrebu myslie\u0165 a\u00a0robi\u0165 rozhodnutia. Nem\u00e1me teda in\u00fa mo\u017enos\u0165 ako sa zamyslie\u0165 nad t\u00fdm, \u010di predsa len nie je cesta, ktor\u00e1 by nau\u010dila deti\u00a0 \u00a0zodpovednosti, a\u00a0t\u00fdm aj samostatn\u00e9mu mysleniu. To v\u0161ak znamen\u00e1 vyda\u0165 sa na cestu rizika, \u017ee my rodi\u010dia nemus\u00edme ma\u0165 v\u017edy pravdu, ale\u00a0najm\u00e4 na cestu preverovania vlastn\u00fdch presved\u010den\u00ed o\u00a0tom, ako veci maj\u00fa \u010di musia fungova\u0165. To vlastne znamen\u00e1 \u00a0p\u00fdta\u0165 sa sam\u00fdch seba, \u010di skuto\u010dne na\u0161e po\u017eiadavky stoja na re\u00e1lnom z\u00e1klade a potrebe, respekt\u00edve \u010di skuto\u010dne nepo\u017eadujeme od die\u0165a\u0165a nie\u010do, \u010do m\u00e1 len nami o\u010dak\u00e1van\u00e9 rie\u0161enia.<\/span><\/p>\n

Samostatnos\u0165 a zodpovednos\u0165<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00a0podstate dve z\u00e1kladn\u00e9 vlastnosti die\u0165a\u0165a, ktor\u00e9 v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina rodi\u010dov t\u00fa\u017ei vidie\u0165 u\u00a0svojich det\u00ed. Je to vlastne aj z\u00e1kladn\u00e1 vlastnos\u0165, ktor\u00fa o\u010dak\u00e1vame v\u00a0ka\u017edom vz\u0165ahu. \u010co teda konkr\u00e9tne m\u00e1me na mysli? \u010co si predstavujeme pod t\u00fdm, \u017ee die\u0165a bude zodpovedne kona\u0165?<\/span><\/p>\n

Sk\u00fasme zadefinova\u0165 z\u00e1kladn\u00e9 parametre zodpovednosti. Asi sa zhodneme na\u00a0tom, \u017ee zodpovedn\u00fd je ten, kto sa dok\u00e1\u017ee rozhodn\u00fa\u0165 \u00a0a\u00a0nies\u0165 d\u00f4sledky za vykonan\u00fa vo\u013ebu. \u00a0Ale, aby sme sa vedeli rozhodn\u00fa\u0165, mus\u00edme situ\u00e1ciu najprv spr\u00e1vne zhodnoti\u0165, a teda sa nad \u0148ou zamyslie\u0165 a\u00a0\u00faspe\u0161ne ju de\u0161ifrova\u0165. A\u00a0tu sa dost\u00e1vame ku kore\u0148u veci. U\u010d\u00edme my deti rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165? D\u00e1vame im mo\u017enos\u0165 sa rozhodova\u0165? \u00a0Ako \u00a0to v\u00a0realite rob\u00edme, \u010di vieme zanalyzova\u0165 stav vec\u00ed to n\u00e1m m\u00f4\u017ee \u013eahko objasni\u0165 nasledovn\u00e1 skuto\u010dnos\u0165. Ide o jednoduch\u00fa situ\u00e1ciu zo \u017eivota.<\/span><\/p>\n

Deti sa hlu\u010dne zab\u00e1vaj\u00fa v\u00a0\u010dak\u00e1rni u\u00a0lek\u00e1rky, \u017e\u010fuchaj\u00fa sa a\u00a0podpichuj\u00fa. Mama ich popros\u00ed, aby s\u00a0t\u00fdm prestali, preto\u017ee to m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 nepr\u00edjemn\u00e9 pre \u013eud\u00ed naokolo. Ke\u010f\u017ee rozhodla za nich, teda povedala de\u0165om, \u010do maj\u00fa urobi\u0165, h\u00e1dajte, \u010do sa stalo?\u00a0 Ani nie po min\u00fate z\u00e1bava pokra\u010dovala \u010falej. Na mame bolo vidno, \u017ee sa mus\u00ed ve\u013emi ovl\u00e1da\u0165, aby r\u00e1zne nezakro\u010dila. Po chv\u00ed\u013eke ke\u010f sa zjavne upokojila \u00a0povedala de\u0165om: \u201e\u00a0 Pozrite diev\u010datk\u00e1 moje, ste u\u017e dos\u0165 ve\u013ek\u00e9 a\u00a0m\u00e1te vlastn\u00fd rozum. \u010co mysl\u00edte p\u00e1\u010di sa va\u0161e \u017e\u010fuchanie tej pani ved\u013ea v\u00e1s? M\u00f4\u017ee si ten p\u00e1n oproti pokojne \u010d\u00edta\u0165 svoje noviny, ke\u010f vy sa hlasno zab\u00e1vate? Ako sa asi t\u00ed \u013eudia c\u00edtia?\u201c<\/span><\/p>\n

Diev\u010dence prekvapene h\u013eadeli, bolo vidno, \u017ee rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013eaj\u00fa, \u010do mama vlastne povedala . Po chv\u00edli sa op\u00fdtali, \u010di m\u00f4\u017eu \u010daka\u0165 vonku. Ke\u010f mama s\u00fahlasila odi\u0161li. V\u00a0\u010dak\u00e1rni u\u017e viac nevyru\u0161ovali. Sam\u00e9 si zv\u00e1\u017eili v\u0161etky pre a\u00a0proti a\u00a0rozhodli sa.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cesta myslenia<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Hovor\u00edme teda o\u00a0pestovan\u00ed schopnosti rozhodn\u00fa\u0165 sa, respekt\u00edve robi\u0165 rozumn\u00e9 rozhodnutia.\u00a0 Je to schopnos\u0165, ktor\u00fa die\u0165a m\u00f4\u017eeme nau\u010di\u0165 len vtedy, ak mu neust\u00e1le vytv\u00e1rame pr\u00edle\u017eitosti k\u00a0tomu, aby sa rozhodovalo. Syst\u00e9mom kreat\u00edvnych ot\u00e1zok privies\u0165 die\u0165a k\u00a0mysleniu, dopom\u00f4c\u0165 mu k\u00a0pochopeniu situ\u00e1cie a\u00a0k\u00a0vlastn\u00e9mu rie\u0161eniu. \u00a0U\u017e odmali\u010dka, na zdanlivo nepodstatn\u00fdch veciach, m\u00f4\u017eeme die\u0165a vies\u0165 k\u00a0rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013eaniu tak ,ako to vykres\u013euje nasleduj\u00faci pr\u00edklad:<\/span><\/p>\n

Mal\u00fd dvojro\u010dn\u00fd Luk\u00e1\u0161ko r\u00e1d v\u00a0lese berie palicu a\u00a0sek\u00e1 do v\u0161etk\u00e9ho naokolo. Mami\u010dka ho mierne upozorn\u00ed nasledovn\u00fdmi slovami: \u201eLuk\u00e1\u0161ko rastlinky s\u00fa \u017eiv\u00e9, tak ako my \u013eudia. \u010co sa stane tebe, ke\u010f \u0165a niekto udrie? Au, au.\u201c odpovie Luk\u00e1\u0161, ke\u010f\u017ee e\u0161te plynule nerozpr\u00e1va. \u201e\u010co mysl\u00ed\u0161, \u010do sa stane rastlink\u00e1m, ke\u010f aj oni s\u00fa \u017eiv\u00e9?\u201c Luk\u00e1\u0161 sa zastav\u00ed, odlo\u017e\u00ed palicu, pohladk\u00e1 kvietky a\u00a0povie: \u201e Moja.\u201c<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00e1to pr\u00edhoda z\u00a0re\u00e1lneho \u017eivota ukazuje, \u017ee netreba podce\u0148ova\u0165 schopnosti aj t\u00fdch najmen\u0161\u00edch det\u00ed a\u00a0necha\u0165 ich rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165 sp\u00f4sobom\u00a0 pr\u00edslu\u0161n\u00fdm ich veku.<\/span><\/p>\n

Zodpovedn\u00e9 tvoriv\u00e9 myslenie: AKO namiesto \u010cO!<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\u010co\u00a0 je na oboch pr\u00edbehoch spolo\u010dn\u00e9? Sloboda rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165 nad vecou s\u00e1m. Nov\u00fd pr\u00edstup k\u00a0v\u00fdchove je zameran\u00fd na to ako<\/strong> maj\u00fa deti myslie\u0165 a\u00a0nie \u010do<\/strong> si maj\u00fa myslie\u0165. Pre\u010do je v\u00a0tom tak\u00fd podstatn\u00fd rozdiel, alebo \u010do je na tom zl\u00e9, ke\u010f die\u0165a\u0165u vysvet\u013eujeme, ako \u017eivot funguje? Najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161ou pascou je, \u017ee pri pr\u00edkazoch a\u00a0neust\u00e1lom pou\u010dovan\u00ed \u010di rad\u00e1ch deti len pas\u00edvne prij\u00edmaj\u00fa na\u0161e postoje a\u00a0z\u00e1sady bez mo\u017enosti\u00a0 overi\u0165 si ich pravdivos\u0165 sebe vlastn\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom.\u00a0 Okrem toho mnoho na\u0161ich n\u00e1zorov u\u017e v\u00a0bud\u00facnosti nemus\u00ed by\u0165 pravdiv\u00fdch, preto\u017ee svet sa r\u00fdchlo vyv\u00edja a\u00a0men\u00ed. Na\u0161e deti bud\u00fa pravdepodobne \u017ei\u0165 dospelos\u0165 v\u00a0podmienkach, kde tradi\u010dn\u00e1 rodina u\u017e nebude ma\u0165 \u00a0svoje ust\u00e1len\u00e9 miesto, bud\u00fa in\u00e9 ekonomick\u00e9 mo\u017enosti . Jedin\u00e9 \u010d\u00edm ich do \u017eivota m\u00f4\u017eeme obdarova\u0165 je \u00a0schopnos\u0165 samostatne myslie\u0165, rozhodova\u0165 sa a\u00a0prebera\u0165 zodpovednos\u0165 za seba a\u00a0svoje okolie.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kde rob\u00edme chyby?<\/span><\/p>\n

Zauj\u00edmav\u00e9 je, \u017ee na\u0161e \u010dast\u00e9 pripom\u00ednanie, \u010do maj\u00fa deti urobi\u0165, \u010di na \u010do nemaj\u00fa n\u00e1hodou zabudn\u00fa\u0165, \u00a0im rovnako ned\u00e1va \u0161ancu spo\u013eahn\u00fa\u0165 sa s\u00e1m na seba, dovoli\u0165 si zamyslie\u0165 sa nad rozhodnut\u00edm samostatne.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dokonca aj pon\u00faknut\u00e9 funguj\u00face rie\u0161enia vedia die\u0165a rozlo\u017ei\u0165 nahlod\u00e1van\u00edm jeho sebad\u00f4very. Obdobne to funguje aj medzi nami dospel\u00fdmi. Napr\u00edklad tak, ako v\u00a0nasleduj\u00facej situ\u00e1cii.<\/span><\/p>\n

Predstavte si , \u017ee m\u00e1te presne napl\u00e1novan\u00e9 kedy da\u0165 \u0161aty do \u010distiarne. Premysleli ste si, \u017ee ich tam zanesiete vo \u0161tvrtok, ke\u010f m\u00e1te cestu okolo. V\u00a0priebehu posledn\u00fdch troch dn\u00ed sa v\u00e1s v\u0161ak va\u0161a \u017eena nieko\u013ekokr\u00e1t op\u00fdtala, \u010di m\u00e1te st\u00e1le e\u0161te \u010distiare\u0148 na mysli. Ako by ste sa c\u00edtili pri tre\u0165om raze? S\u00a0najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161ou pravdepodobnos\u0165ou by ste mali \u010do robi\u0165, aby ste sa s\u00a0\u0148ou neza\u010dali h\u00e1da\u0165 o\u00a0tom, \u017ee ste nato\u013eko pri zmysloch, aby ste si \u010distiare\u0148 ustr\u00e1\u017eili aj s\u00e1m. Najm\u00e4, ke\u010f zoberieme do \u00favahy, \u017ee ste typ \u010dloveka, na ktor\u00e9ho sa d\u00e1 spo\u013eahn\u00fa\u0165. A\u00a0tak je to aj s\u00a0na\u0161imi de\u0165mi. Priv\u00e1dzame ich mnohokr\u00e1t do konfliktov my sami ,preto\u017ee im ned\u00f4verujeme. Ke\u010f sa veci nedej\u00fa hne\u010f alebo sp\u00f4sobom, ktor\u00fdm si sami vymysl\u00edme, bombardujeme die\u0165a koment\u00e1rmi, ktor\u00e9 ich nedobrovo\u013ene vtiahnu na bojov\u00e9 pole s\u00a0nami.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Istota spr\u00e1vnej vo\u013eby\"\"<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Predpokladajme, \u017ee u\u017e rozumieme, pre\u010do je dobr\u00e9 die\u0165a necha\u0165 samostatne rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165. St\u00e1le v\u0161ak vyvst\u00e1va ot\u00e1zka \u010di mo\u017enos\u0165 rozhodn\u00fa\u0165 sa a\u00a0na\u0161a d\u00f4vera v\u00a0neho zaru\u010dia, \u017ee die\u0165a p\u00f4jde spr\u00e1vnym smerom? Ur\u010dite nie. Ak v\u0161ak samo dospeje k\u00a0dan\u00e9mu rozhodnutiu, vie, na z\u00e1klade ak\u00fdch presved\u010den\u00ed sa rozhodlo a\u00a0over\u00ed si, \u010di s\u00fa spr\u00e1vne pr\u00e1ve t\u00fdm, \u017ee to vysk\u00fa\u0161a. Je to v\u0161ak jeho vo\u013eba a\u00a0t\u00fdm aj jeho zodpovednos\u0165. Nem\u00f4\u017ee sa vyhov\u00e1ra\u0165 na nikoho, \u017ee mu to prik\u00e1zal a\u00a0\u017ee to nie je jeho chyba. Mus\u00ed samostatne \u010deli\u0165 tomu, \u010do pr\u00edde. A\u00a0najm\u00e4 bude vedie\u0165 pre\u010do to pri\u0161lo, ke\u010f\u017ee samo si to vymyslelo. A\u00a0tu je na\u0161a rodi\u010dovsk\u00e1 \u00faloha:<\/span><\/p>\n

Umo\u017eni\u0165 die\u0165a\u0165u nies\u0165 si n\u00e1sledky svojich rozhodnut\u00ed!<\/span><\/p>\n

\u010casto n\u00e1m n\u00e1sledok\u00a0 m\u00f4\u017ee pripada\u0165 tvrd\u00fd \u010di zbyto\u010dn\u00fd najm\u00e4 ke\u010f vieme, \u017ee die\u0165a nevolilo dan\u00fa vo\u013ebu so zl\u00fdm \u00famyslom. Av\u0161ak uvedomme si, \u017ee ak ho pred n\u00e1sledkom ochr\u00e1nime, berieme mu \u0161ancu pou\u010di\u0165 sa z\u00a0vlastnej chyby a\u00a0prec\u00edti\u0165 do d\u00f4sledkov, \u010do dan\u00e1 vo\u013eba znamen\u00e1. V\u00a0pr\u00edpade, \u017ee boles\u0165 \u010di du\u0161evn\u00e9 utrpenie nehrani\u010d\u00ed s\u00a0fat\u00e1lnymi n\u00e1sledkami (nevratn\u00e9 zdravotn\u00e9 \u010di psychick\u00e9 zmeny) die\u0165a m\u00e1 \u0161ancu budova\u0165 svoju odolnos\u0165 a\u00a0u\u010di\u0165 sa, \u017ee chyby s\u00fa norm\u00e1lne a\u00a0nevyhnutn\u00e9 v\u00a0\u017eivote. S\u00fa to vlastne jedine\u010dn\u00e9 \u0161ance, ktor\u00e9 ak spr\u00e1vne vyrie\u0161ime, pos\u00favaj\u00fa n\u00e1s a\u00a0na\u0161e deti v\u00fdrazne \u010falej. Toto si v\u0161ak mnoh\u00ed rodi\u010dia neuvedomuj\u00fa a\u00a0z\u00a0pr\u00edli\u0161n\u00e9ho vlastn\u00e9ho strachu o\u00a0die\u0165a, respekt\u00edve zasa raz ned\u00f4very vo\u010di nemu, sa sna\u017eia v\u0161emo\u017ene svoje ratolesti ochr\u00e1ni\u0165. \u010casto nav\u0161tevuj\u00fa \u0161kolu a\u00a0usilovne vysvet\u013euj\u00fa u\u010dite\u013eom, \u017ee ono vlastne nem\u00f4\u017ee za svoju nepripravenos\u0165, lebo…. Br\u00e1nia die\u0165a\u0165u samostatne vyjs\u0165 schody, lebo … a\u00a0mnoh\u00e9 in\u00e9!<\/span><\/p>\n

Naopak, \u010do pom\u00e1ha \u010deli\u0165 n\u00e1\u0161mu pr\u00edli\u0161n\u00e9mu strachu \u010di ned\u00f4vere?<\/span><\/p>\n

Vedomie, \u017ee probl\u00e9my a\u00a0situ\u00e1cie, do ktor\u00fdch sa teraz v\u00a0malom veku die\u0165a dost\u00e1va s\u00fa vlastne mal\u00fdmi probl\u00e9mami. Ke\u010f sa nenau\u010d\u00ed z\u00a0mal\u00fdch p\u00e1dov a\u00a0bolest\u00ed vst\u00e1va\u0165 a\u00a0vyvarova\u0165 sa podobn\u00fdm rie\u0161eniam, pr\u00eddu u\u017e len \u0165a\u017e\u0161ie a\u00a0ove\u013ea tvrd\u0161ie. A\u00a0\u010do je podstatn\u00e9, raz nastane chv\u00ed\u013ea kedy u\u017e rodi\u010dia nebud\u00fa nabl\u00edzku! Nikto nebude m\u00f4c\u0165 za die\u0165a rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165, d\u00e1va\u0165 mu \u201erady\u201c, paradoxne \u010dasto kr\u00e1t menej rozumn\u00e9 ako tie, \u010do by si die\u0165a vymyslelo samo. A\u00a0to potom bud\u00fa zranenia, ktor\u00e9 m\u00f4\u017eu zanech\u00e1va\u0165 ove\u013ea hlb\u0161ie stopy. Sk\u00fasme sa ma\u0165 na pozore a\u00a0ke\u010f chceme za die\u0165a nie\u010do rie\u0161i\u0165 \u010di bojova\u0165 s\u00a0n\u00edm, op\u00fdtajme sa sami seba: Ke\u010f ho nech\u00e1m vo v\u00fdsledku p\u00f4jde o\u00a0zmrza\u010denie alebo len \u0161krabanec? Vo v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ine pr\u00edpadov, samotn\u00fd \u010din die\u0165a nau\u010d\u00ed t\u00fdm najlep\u0161\u00edm sp\u00f4sobom ako svet funguje, ako si s\u00a0n\u00edm najlep\u0161ie vych\u00e1dza\u0165.<\/span><\/p>\n

Obn\u00e1\u0161a tento sp\u00f4sob rizik\u00e1?<\/span><\/p>\n

Mnoh\u00ed z\u00a0v\u00e1s si teraz kladiete ot\u00e1zku: m\u00e1m die\u0165a necha\u0165 v\u0161etko vysk\u00fa\u0161a\u0165 a\u00a0dovoli\u0165 mu \u010doko\u013evek? Ve\u010f to vedie k ob\u00e1vanej anarchii a\u00a0do bludn\u00e9ho kruhu, ktor\u00e9mu sa sna\u017e\u00edme vyvarova\u0165.\u00a0 Rozhodne nie! Na\u0161a rodi\u010dovsk\u00e1 \u00faloha je len posunut\u00e1 z\u00a0poz\u00edcie absolutistick\u00e9ho vl\u00e1dcu, a teda uplat\u0148ovate\u013ea na\u0161ej v\u00f4le, smerom k\u00a0vedeniu a\u00a0sprev\u00e1dzaniu die\u0165a\u0165a na jeho ceste.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00a0predo\u0161l\u00fdch paragrafoch sme si povedali, \u017ee prv\u00fdm krokom ku rie\u0161eniu konfliktu s\u00a0die\u0165a\u0165om je, cielen\u00fdmi ot\u00e1zkami, \u010di pop\u00edsan\u00edm situ\u00e1cie z\u00a0na\u0161ej strany preru\u0161i\u0165 jeho \u010dinnos\u0165 a\u00a0navies\u0165 ho na vlastn\u00e9 rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013eanie o\u00a0veci. N\u00e1sledne potom prich\u00e1dza \u010das, kedy die\u0165a zrealizuje svoje rozhodnutie, teda kon\u00e1. Teraz sa po\u010fme pozrie\u0165 na to, ako spracov\u00e1va\u0165 dopady rozhodnutia, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa v\u00a0konflikte s\u00a0okol\u00edm, alebo die\u0165a\u0165om samotn\u00fdm (napr. nepriazniv\u00fd vplyv na jeho zdravie).<\/span><\/p>\n

Pr\u00edklad: \u010co sa stane die\u0165a\u0165u, ktor\u00e9 si nabal\u00ed \u0161kolsk\u00fa ta\u0161ku mno\u017estvom vec\u00ed? Bude musie\u0165 nosi\u0165 cel\u00fd de\u0148 so sebou \u0165a\u017ek\u00fd n\u00e1klad. Je to prirodzen\u00fd d\u00f4sledok\u00a0 toho, \u017ee si neskontrolovalo, \u010di tam m\u00e1 len potrebn\u00e9 veci alebo, \u017ee si nezhodnotilo, \u017ee ta\u0161ka pln\u00e1 z\u00e1baviek mu ne\u00fanosne za\u0165a\u017e\u00ed ta\u0161ku. S najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161ou pravdepodobnos\u0165ou si na bud\u00face d\u00e1 ve\u013ek\u00fd pozor, aby si zobralo len potrebn\u00e9. \u00a0Ide o\u00a0situ\u00e1ciu, kde rodi\u010d nemus\u00ed spravi\u0165 ni\u010d preto, aby si die\u0165a uvedomilo nespr\u00e1vne rozhodnutie.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trest alebo logick\u00e9 d\u00f4sledky?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Ove\u013ea viac je v\u0161ak situ\u00e1ci\u00ed, kedy je potrebn\u00e9 zasiahnu\u0165.\u00a0 Ako to rodi\u010dia zvy\u010dajne rie\u0161ia? Die\u0165a, ktor\u00e9 si po\u017ei\u010dia od rodi\u010da n\u00e1radie a\u00a0ned\u00e1 ho nasp\u00e4\u0165 na ur\u010den\u00e9 miesto, dostane trest v\u00a0podobe moralizovania, kritizovania, z\u00e1kazu telev\u00edzie \u010di inej ob\u013e\u00fabenej \u010dinnosti na p\u00e1r dn\u00ed.<\/span><\/p>\n

Existuje aj in\u00fd sp\u00f4sob ako uk\u00e1za\u0165 die\u0165a\u0165u, \u017ee je treba by\u0165 poriadkumilovn\u00e9 \u010di zodpovedn\u00e9 ak chceme spolu \u017ei\u0165 v\u00a0jednej dom\u00e1cnosti? \u00c1no, je tu cesta logick\u00fdch d\u00f4sledkov. Ako to vyzer\u00e1? Nabud\u00face, ke\u010f si die\u0165a bude chcie\u0165 po\u017ei\u010da\u0165 n\u00e1radie – n\u00e1jde krabicu zamknut\u00fa. Ke\u010f sa pr\u00edde ocka op\u00fdta\u0165 pre\u010do je zamknut\u00e1 ten mu povie, \u017ee samo vie pre\u010do. Die\u0165a to skontroluje ot\u00e1zkou: \u201e Preto, \u017ee som minule kladivo nevr\u00e1til sp\u00e4\u0165?\u201c Otec odpovie: \u201e\u00c1no, potrebujem ma\u0165 istotu, \u017ee ke\u010f chcem veci pou\u017ei\u0165 n\u00e1jdem ich na ur\u010denom mieste. Zajtra m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 sk\u00fasi\u0165 znova, \u010di si pam\u00e4t\u00e1\u0161 kam n\u00e1radie po pr\u00e1ci patr\u00ed.\u201c<\/span><\/p>\n

\u010c\u00edm sa tieto dve rie\u0161enia odli\u0161uj\u00fa? V\u00a0pr\u00edpade logick\u00fdch d\u00f4sledkov die\u0165a zak\u00fasi od rodi\u010da re\u0161pekt (nie je pon\u00ed\u017een\u00e9 vynadan\u00edm), d\u00f4sledok priamo s\u00favis\u00ed so situ\u00e1ciou, je logick\u00fd a\u00a0spravodliv\u00fd (jedenkr\u00e1t zamedz\u00ed die\u0165a\u0165u pou\u017ei\u0165 n\u00e1stroje), s\u00fastre\u010fuje sa na probl\u00e9m, nie na die\u0165a (ch\u00fdbaj\u00face n\u00e1stroje), nech\u00e1va ho rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165 samostatne (ty vie\u0161 pre\u010do), pon\u00faka mo\u017enos\u0165 zmeny (sk\u00fasi\u0161 zajtra) a\u00a0t\u00fdm sa s\u00fastre\u010fuje na bud\u00face spr\u00e1vanie. Rodi\u010d pln\u00ed funkciu sprievodcu \u010di ak\u00e9hosi u\u010dite\u013ea.<\/span><\/p>\n

Naproti tomu trest zd\u00f4raz\u0148uje autoritu dospel\u00e9ho a\u00a0potrebu podriadi\u0165 sa , s\u00fadi a\u00a0hodnot\u00ed die\u0165a (moralizovanie, kritika,..), \u010dasto nes\u00favis\u00ed so situ\u00e1ciou (z\u00e1kaz telev\u00edzie), je obvykle uplat\u0148ovan\u00fd v\u00a0hneve a\u00a0t\u00fdm \u010dasto aj prehnan\u00fd a nezodpovedaj\u00faci v\u00e1\u017enosti spr\u00e1vania. Dospel\u00fd je v\u00a0\u00falohe vl\u00e1dcu, kontrol\u00f3ra, sudcu a\u00a0trestaj\u00faceho.<\/span><\/p>\n

Po takomto porovnan\u00ed si pomerne \u013eahko odpoviete aj na ot\u00e1zku v\u00a0akej roli chcete v \u017eivote svojho die\u0165a\u0165a st\u00e1\u0165.<\/span><\/p>\n

Prirodzen\u00e9 a\u00a0logick\u00e9 d\u00f4sledky s\u00fa posledn\u00fdm kamienkom mozaiky Efekt\u00edvneho rodi\u010dovstva , ktor\u00e9ho snahou je pom\u00f4c\u0165 V\u00e1m rodi\u010dia vytvori\u0165 harmonick\u00e9 prostredie domova pln\u00e9ho vz\u00e1jomnej d\u00f4very a\u00a0porozumenia.<\/span><\/p>\n

Autor \u010dl\u00e1nku: Martina Vaga\u010dov\u00e1<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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To je oblas\u0165, kde by rodi\u010d r\u00e1d […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"site-sidebar-layout":"no-sidebar","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-1016","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"yoast_head":"\nPrirodzen\u00e9 a logick\u00e9 d\u00f4sledky - n\u00e1stroj k zodpovednosti - Martina Vaga\u010dov\u00e1<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/martina.vagacova.sk\/?page_id=1016\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sk_SK\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Prirodzen\u00e9 a logick\u00e9 d\u00f4sledky - n\u00e1stroj k zodpovednosti - Martina Vaga\u010dov\u00e1\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Efekt\u00edvna komunik\u00e1cia s\u00a0die\u0165a\u0165om prehlbuje vz\u00e1jomn\u00e9 pozit\u00edvne vz\u0165ahy\u00a0 v\u00a0rodine a\u00a0buduje d\u00f4veru a\u00a0porozumenie. 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